Smell Like a Real Man

Don't know about you but this video hit's on everything a woman could want, a boat, tickets to a show, a pony and of course a great smelling man. Watch the video after the jump...

Death of the gentlemen

Call it death of the gentlemen, the end of an era or the dying days of chivalry. Regardless what you call it fellas.........sorry to say, but its here. Far be it from me to cast judgment on an entire gender, especially my own, but the ladies are saying it with a loud voice and its time to listen up. What they are saying is generally speaking overtime men have gotten lazy in regards to paying attention to satisfying woman's  immediate needs. Stay with me as we touch on 4 of them and I'm not talking about the Twilight Saga series (It's a funny joke cause there are 4 books in the series..) So which ones we talk'n bout?

To be: pursued, attended to, desired and to be complimented. And what are women saying?

Pick up the phone. When you meet a shorty that you are genuinely interested in and your trying to make a date...put in some effort and make a call. Texting. Really?
Guys, sometimes what women need, is to feel a bit perused and desired. come on man...show a girl she's worth the effort, and put something more into your pursuit. Technology has given us the ability to be lazy. It ain't right...

Girls love flowers...No shit. Guys this is an easy one. But we some how manage to screw this one up too. Either by not giving them at all..or assuming that you can bring your girl flowers, then shut her off for the rest of the night. Be attentive, listen to what she's got to say and be there for her. 

Guys need to try harder sometimes. Women are constantly testing men, and men are constantly failing! Women are generally more emotional creatures than guys. Their emotions fluctuate. So when women are feeling down,We need to help bring them back up. We know that sometimes they need that extra little compliment, and I don't mean "yeah you look fine..." Come on man! That gets you an F (not the "F" that you want). Try harder idiot.

Times have changed for both men and women since the birth of the chivalrous gentlemen. Women want to be treated equally and men want partners that are equal. The disconnect is that in the woman's fight for equality they lost a few things along the way and men were all but too happy to let those things slide. So when women find a gentlemen, they are actually surprised. And they really shouldn't be. I'm not saying that all women are angels...FAR from it. But fellas lets just try a little harder, and do our part. Ladies do yours too, and believe me, true gentlemen, really do exist.

Stay Sexy people...

What do you admire most about the opposite sex?

A Ninja got an overwhelming response from this one!  There were some very interesting and surprising responses from both men and women.There were different interpretations of what the actual question was, there for the answers do vary. There were a number of physical attributes mentioned,While others mentioned qualities and some mentioned characteristics. Some people just got outright personal.

No judgments are made on the responses (or ever on wordupninja.com) but it may lead you to wonder a few things….

The physical comments: Is this a reflection on how the opposite sex is measured? or was it an interpretation of the question that was asked?
The qualities and characteristics comments: Is this what we are seeking? Or what we already have found? Do you believe they exist?
The personal shit: That’s just kinda funny but also reflective on how we have been affected by the opposite sex.

Here is something for y’all to chew on…who were you thinking of when you responded? We're Looking forward to your comments and or additional responses.(or if you want to own up to your responses)
Here's how the Men responded:

• “Toes.”

• “Their ability to truly care/empathize/put others above themselves/nurture.”

• “The way they complement man, the different perspective they present to teach us more about    life and to look at things in different ways.”

• “The way they carry themselves, and their look”

• “Legs”

• "The ability to reproduce life. And to hate as passionate as they love. I think that women can feel deep emotion in a way most men can't. I think that it is due to the fact they can give life, and men are much better at taking it away."

• “Love  unconditionally like mothers do."

•  “The fact that there is a piece of meat around your cock that feels like heaven.”

• “The way they can use men, cheat on men ,rip out their hearts heart and still look a man in the face and say that it is all his fault. Now that’s a poker face.”

• “How they can rock Lululemon pants and drive men crazy wit dat ass.”

• “Their ability to calm you down, but drive you crazy at the same time.”

• Favorite: “Their ability to make you feel like a man.”

Here is how the women responded:

• “I think when a man truly loves a woman...I admire the way they will protect and do anything for her!!”

• “They don’t get involved in drama.”

• “Big strong shoulders. Yum.”

• “COCK AND BALLS!  Scent of a man.. Shit.. That's a loaded question, regardless I am a big fan!”

• “I admire individuals, not a gender or sex in general, but I do think that men think differently than women, and its interesting. Final answer.”

• “I think, it would be a man's ability to possess a quiet powerful strength.”

• “Eyes, the way they look at u. U can feel what they r feeling or thinking by their look.”

• “Their compassion”

• “Key word. Admire. I admire their ability to work through situations with less emotion than women. Rationally and more easy going.”

• “The ability to resolve disputes and let go of grudges.”

• “The ability to possibly change them.”

• Favorite: “Ability to make a woman feel safe”

• “Sense of humor, caring, sensitive, honesty, sense of adventure and a good ass”

• “Honesty”

• -That we are just “opposite”

• “Cuz they contain a body part I will never have, but really need”

• “The ability to be emotionally supportive, a strong caring a provider and some who can throw me around in the bed.”

• “Chivalry”

•  "Common discrimination's and stereotypes favor the male population "

What more can I say...the people have spoken.  You may agree..you may disagree, you may just agree to disagree, (which I really don't care for...)but It's an interesting question. It has no right answer, but it does make you think...what are we really in this for?
Now lets hear what you gotsta say about it.....

Peace, Love and Sooooooooooul!